Just done.
Its been one month and 2 days since we broke up.
In that time I have heard the following:
-I love you
-I love you forever
-This is horrible and hard
-I miss you
-blah
-blah
-blah
Im so done with the bullshit.
Im sorry for the language this blog post is not for the curse word hating
I very very rarely post super personal matters on my blog mainly because I worry my dad will read it and I dont want him to go to jail for killing someone…like Chad.
But saying “I need time to decide if this was the right decision but im leaning more towards it was”
After crying to meet for over a week and freaking out when I didnt answer a text last Friday because I WAS ASLEEP! Even though he thought I was I dont know I guess whoring myself on the streets of Dallas is not the behavior of someone who made the right decision.
WELL F*&! You Chad!
Now IM making a decision.
If you text me, call me, email me, send smoke signals or a carrier pigeon I am done!
I am worth way more than the way I have been treated and emotionally Effed with.
I AM EFFING DONE!!!!!!!!
Sorry that this has taken the place of my usually sunny upbeat(for the most part) blog posts but ya know after a 2 hour conversation last night in which absolutely nothing was solved. I am done.
I am done answering the 500 texts a day, talking to you every night and well other things that go along with year and a half relationships!
DONE!
You go girl! You definitely deserve to be treated better than that!
Ugh, sorry girl! But MAJOR props to you for standing up for yourself! You deserve to be treated properly and wonderfully! *hugs*
Oh no way!! Neely you deserve SO much more than someone who wants to take his time to decide whether you’re who he wants. Remember—don’t ever make someone your priority when all they want is for you to be an option. Move on, find someone EVEN MORE fantastic, learn to love you again, and have fun. You deserve better— go out and enjoy life without him!! 🙂
He has some problems. I can’t figure out what they are but I think its a good idea to protect your heart from him. I like what Kelly said don’t make him a priority when you are just an option to him.
Good for you! You definitely deserve better!!
Ok, I tried again to get my email thing worked out so hopefully it works! If not, ugh, I am sorry….
Good girl! You absolutely can and will find someone better. The first step is getting Chad out of your life, and it sounds like you are on the way there. Hugs!
I think every woman has been in your shoes, so I just want to say AMEN!!!!!
Good for you! Be done! 🙂
Ugh sorry girl, it sounds like he is making things just awful for you right now. You deserve SO much better xoxo
Good for you! You definitely deserve so much better than that! I effing HATE dudes that string girls along like that. I finally freed myself from one like that 4 years ago and then I met my current husband. You will find someone who is worthy of you and will love you more than you ever thought possible.
Ummm WHAT! A! DOUCHEBAG!! He can’t break up with you then decide he wants to still “love” you. No fair! You are right to cut him off all together. Go on a date and prove its over!
GOOD FOR YOU – you deserve soooooooo much more than that!!!
Good for you! I am so proud of you for being so strong about this…I know it’s not easy!
And I have to say the carrier pigeon made me laugh out loud…you are too funny!
Very well said. You deserve so much better! It’s his loss – Go out there and have fun, live your life for you and Mr. Right will come along when the timing is right!
Yay for standing up to him! You deserve a guy who will never leave you! He’s out there – I promise!
well Neely I did see you down on Harry Hines that Friday night 😉 haha! Im so sorry that your going through this and I love that your dad loves you so much that you dont want him to go to jail! Hope you feel better!
Hey Chad! If ur reading this…f you!!!!! Neely has way more girlfriends then you’ll ever have!!! You lost a great gal buddy!
Love ya Neely<3
I’m so proud of you! You are an amazing girl, and you deserve so much better than that, and I KNOW you will find someone so much better than that! Love you dear!
I’m so sorry! Proud of you for standing up for yourself!
Stay strong lady, he doesn’t deserve you! =)
You go girl! You deserve so much better! xoxo
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Good for you. What an ass for him to try to string you along like that. You definitely deserve better!
Good for you girl! A long while ago, I gave a guy like that way too long of a time of day and I wish I never had. Way to go for realizing it now and giving him the boot!
And speaking from experience, something WAY better is around the corner!!
Good for you! A year ago I decided to be DONE! I cut that drama out and yes it was hard but man it was so worth it! Be strong girlie!
I LOATHE when guys say things like “you know I’ll always love you, right?” when you are broken up. Because it’s not true, and I hope it wouldn’t be! Why would you want to be married to someone else and still love an ex?? It’s mainly said by the guy so he can feel like he has some hold or power or something still over you for always. Can you tell I had an ex who would say that? 🙂 I would laugh when he did! Luckily he lived far away so I didn’t have to hear it once we were done!! 🙂
Good for you!
Good for you! Tell him like it is girly. You will come out better on the other side of this, sounds like he’s pretty ridiculous.
I say block him. Block him everywhere. Cell, FB, Twitter, iChat, Google chat, and Harry Potter owls. Ha!
GOOD FOR YOU GIRL.!! It usually takes people sooo much longer to figure this out, but you did and I’m proud of you. 🙂 You are such a strong girl.! Keep it up and don’t settle for anyone less than perfect.
Good for you!!! You know I have been telling you this… in the 2 weeks I have known you! 😉
Okay… now that I’m no longer speechless… I love how HE is acting like the victim (a whiny and needy one at that) when HE was the one who decided to break up…??
I don’t know how he thinks the world works, but you don’t get to do as you please, and then when it’s not as good as you thought it was, turn around and act like nothing happened. You don’t get do-overs, Chadwick.
Dear Chadwick,
I’m so very sorry that when you finally awoke from your stupidity coma and realized that you should have held on a little tighter to someone who is too good for you, she wasn’t sitting around waiting for you to change your mind.
xoxo, the sister of someone who also married a Chad who was also a hunk of jerk. Maybe if he hadn’t acted like such a girl, I wouldn’t have branded him Chadwick, after the popular women’s clothing line.
p.s. stop being a whiny little bitch about it, especially when it’s your own fault. It’s not attractive from a ‘man’, and it’s probably annoying.
p.p.s. Neely’s dad – I’ve always wanted to feel the sweet satisfaction of letting the air out of a douchebag’s tires. If you’re interested, Neely has my e-mail. :p
Whaaat a jerk! Good for you for giving him the boot.
good for you for putting your foot down!! Thinking of you and wishing you an easy transition through this tough time!
You are a fierce lady, and you definitely do not deserve his BS. I am sure it wasn’t easy to cut all ties, but sometimes you have to rip the band-aid off quickly, right? We’re all here for you!
girl seriously im proud of you! i wish i could say these things to some people and id feel 10x’s better!
you get major kudos for standing up for yourself and i cant be more proud of you girl! you do deserve better, good job for not stooping to his level or however you want to call it!!!!
XXOO
Wahooo! You tell him! You have hundreds of friends here that will back you 100%!
Go Neely!!! You deserve to be treated with the upmost respect and dignity, which he isn’t. Women everywhere are cheering you on right now :).
game over!!!
good for you hun!! those mind games are the worst!
you deserve the best and you will get it!! sending hugs your way!!
p.s. hope you are having a fun week girly!!! when you get back you need to post on all the clothes you been buying, according to the tweets you are doing lots of shopping 😉
wishing you good luck as you move on. there’s someone much better waiting for you out there!