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Its over…for good.

Chad and I broke up…rather he broke up with me and its for good this time

It was out of no where and I still dont have a clear reason why…

I want to thank you sweet girls especially my blog designer Jenn who just had a baby like days ago for being so amazing to me.

You girls are seriously the most amazing friends ever and I am so lucky to have you.

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  1. ty wrote:

    Love you booger.

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  2. Sorry girl.. sounds like you need some of those chick flicks I blogged about to come out NOW!! Make some junk food and watch one anyways.. that always helps me (even I end up crying…). I know it is SO cliche.. but everything happens for a reason, girl!

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  3. kBw wrote:

    I’m so sorry. I’ll keep you in my prayers. Hugs! xo

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  4. Jenn wrote:

    Even when the reason is unclear, know that everything happens for a reason!
    Hugs!!

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  5. Krystal wrote:

    We’re all thinking and sending you well wishes! Keep your head up, at least your finals are over (right?) so have a few cocktails and enjoy your time off!

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  6. Rebecca wrote:

    I know I am new around here…and I probably – as about of it as I have been lately – not even introduced myself officially yet, but I just wanted to say I am really sorry. Just have faith and find some comfort in the thought that you will be ok – with or without the reason, sooner or later. Now you should just do anything to grieve and make yourself feel better. hugs!

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  7. I am so sorry. Stay strong! Sending happy thoughts your way.

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  8. Rachel wrote:

    Very sorry to hear that! Thinking of you…

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  9. Jen wrote:

    So sorry girl… Thinking of you <3

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  10. Kate wrote:

    So sorry to hear about that! Thinking of you!

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  11. L wrote:

    aw girl im sorry to hear that…i know its easier said than done but stay strong, theres always a light at the end of the tunnel. sending you well wishes!

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  12. Suze wrote:

    Prayers up for you girl, sending positive vibes for you girl! so sorry!!!!! it all happens for a reason promise! 🙂 it gets easier always remember “this too shall pass!” 🙂

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  13. Al wrote:

    Neely – I have known “of” you for a long time on here – we have several mutual blog buds – but my husband of 4 years, boyfriend of almost a DECADE, left me just 5 months ago out of the blue. With no reason why. My blog has been my only outlet and it has hurt in ways no one can fathom. Reading this post – well, if anyone can understand what you are feeling right now, I can. Please know you are in my thoughts, and I hope you are ok…

    -Al

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  14. Sam wrote:

    So so sorry Neely! Thinking of you, and I think I speak for everyone when I say, if you need anything, please don’t hesitate to ask! xo

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  15. Katie K. wrote:

    You’re one strong girl and I know that you will get through this! If you need to get away you should come visit me in Fredericksburg!

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  16. just txt ya

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  17. Mrs. B wrote:

    I’m so sorry, Neely! We’re all here for you if you need to talk/vent. I’ll be thinking of you. **HUGS**

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  18. Whitney wrote:

    i’m so sorry 🙁

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  19. SAY WHAT!!!!!!!!! OMG EMAIL ME!

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  20. Kit wrote:

    I am so sorry! I am sending happy thoughts your way!

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  21. oh no! Im so sorry Neely! Let me know if you need anything! thinking about you!!!

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  22. Mari wrote:

    Im so sorry, keep your head up girly your awesome!

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  23. Kelly wrote:

    Thinking of you. We’re always here for you!

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  24. Very good blog, I leave mine

    http://basta-fuerte-radio.blogspot.com/

    We read, greetings.

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  25. Kate wrote:

    What! I’m so sorry Neely! I’m sending you lots of good thoughts! *hug*

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  26. Heather wrote:

    \I’m thinking of you Neely! HUGS!

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  27. Kristen wrote:

    So sorry girl, hang in there!

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  28. I am so sorry Neely! I will be saying some prayers for you! Keep your head up! You’re a beautiful person and any guy would be lucky to have you!

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  29. Meghan wrote:

    Sending lots of love and hugs! We’re all here for you, lady!

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  30. BeckyJo606 wrote:

    I am so sorry to hear about this. Just a quick story to hopefully inspire you–two Christmases ago the boy who I thought was the love of my life broke up with me. After I gave him his Christmas, before he gave me mine. (which was actually non-existent). I was so devastated and couldn’t imagine my life without him. Less than a year later, I met someone knew and went from thinking I couldn’t face another day to becoming engaged to the greatest man I’ve known. I hope so much your story will become a story of triumph. The best advice I received at the time was—you’re not just going to survive this, you’re going to thrive. that’s true for you too!!

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  31. I am so sorry dear! Ill be praying for you!

    XOXO

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  32. star wrote:

    Im so sorry to hear this Neely! Stay stong girlie, I’ll be thinking of you!

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  33. Jessica wrote:

    I’m so sorry Neely. If I lived closer, I’d bring you wine and cookies and tissues and chick flicks.

    Your blogging girls are here for you, you know that. We love you!

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  34. Thinking of you.

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  35. Katie wrote:

    So sorry– that sucks!! I’ll keep you in my prayers.

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  36. So sorry to hear this! New year … new you is right around the corner girl!

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  37. Brittany wrote:

    {{{{hugs}}}} I’ll be thinking about you.

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  38. Wiz wrote:

    I am so sorry! I don’t know what to say other than I will be thinking about you. 🙁

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  39. Jennifer wrote:

    So sorry. Stay strong and yes everything happens for a reason.

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  40. Mateya wrote:

    Neely I am so sorry to hear this!

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  41. Aly wrote:

    Oh my goodness, I am thinking of you. You will get through this! We are all here for you!

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  42. ugg, I’m soooo sorry girly. Thinking happy thoughts for you.

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  43. I am sorry Neely! Please e-mail me if you want to chat abotu it. I dated a guy for 4.5 years and he broke up with me randomly right after talking marriage with my family. I knwo it hurts now so let me know if you need some extra support.

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  44. audra kate wrote:

    So sorry, girl!!!!!! stay strong, and remember that everything happens for a reason!!! praying for you! <3

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  45. Meagan wrote:

    such good advice from so many amazing women! we will all be here for you through every step of your recovery and i’m looking forward to the day when you can look back and this awful time in your life and be grateful because the new place you will be in will be all you could have hoped and dreamed for!!

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  46. His lose!

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