I really debated writing this post…
You know the kinds of post where you know people are going to feel bad for you, not know what to say to you and generally act funny around you….
My dad called me last Tuesday and said “I have some bad news….”
Last Tuesday I found out my dad has cancer.
Scary word right?
I always took pride in the fact that when filling out medical history forms I could always check “No history of cancer.” That is no longer true.
I do not plan on going into detail on my blog or twitter about the kind of cancer, the prognosis, or anything about it as its his business.
I also did not write this post and expect anyone to feel bad for me or anything like that.
I wrote this post because this is MY blog, this is my place to write whats going on with me. My posts for the next while may seem scattered, I don’t know if I will write as much or as often, or maybe I’ll write more.
Please respect my wishes to not pry, please do not ask me details. If I want people to know details I will tell you. This is a really really really tough time for my dad, myself and my family. The news is still early and no one knows what to expect.
I am my dads only child and we are very close so this has hit me very very hard.
I asked on twitter last week for prayers and so many of you offered them not knowing what you were praying for, this is what I need prayers for.
I need you to pray that my dad gets through this, that he beats it and is healthy again.
I need to you pray that I will have strength through this and not fall apart as I have already done about 4 times.
Thank you in advance for your prayers and respect of my wishes.
I love my readers dearly and I am thankful for you all!
You have all those prayers & many more… Remember what I told you last week. Anytime you need me I’ll be there, just call me!
Just want you to know I’ll be praying for you and your family!
Sending prayers your way. Stay strong =)
prayers going up for you and your Dad…
Thinking of you.
Sorry to hear this Neely! Praying for you, your dad, and your entire family.
So sorry to hear about your father, many prayers your way!
Praying for you friend!!
Praying for you and your family!! I’ve been there as well and it is not easy! You seem like a very strong woman though who will certainly be a wonderful support system for your dad!
I will keep you in my prayers. My dad has been dealing with cancer for several years now and it’s been a roller coaster. So my thoughts are definitely with you!
Prayers coming your way! Hang in there!
Thinking about you and your family and praying for comfort during this time in your life.
That is tough to swallow. Praying for you and your dad!
Cancer sucks. Prayers for you.
Oh Neely, I’ve been meaning to call, and now I know why I should have quit procrastinating and called sooner. I will today. I’m so sorry my love, you definitely have my prayers.
I’m praying for your dad and your family! Sending love your way!
I hope everything goes well! If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m here for you. I went through this with my dad a couple of years ago.
Prayers going your way dearest!! Stay strong and just love him with all that you have!
-Anna
asweetsouthernmess.blogspot.com
Oh, Neely I am so sorry. I can’t imagine how scared you must be. I will pray for your dad! I’m here anytime, girl, you know that. Just text me if you need anything at all.
Praying
In my prayers…and sending lots a love through the blogosphere..
XOXO
KarmaKristin
Praying for you, your dad and all those who love him!:)
I’m so sad that I didn’t get to meet you at Blissdom and give you a hug. Please know that I am going to pray for you and your dad!
I will be praying for you and your family!
Thinking and praying for you all. I know exactly what you are going through. My mom got that diagnosis 3 times and it’s the worst news ever. Be strong for you dad and know he will pull through this. It might not be easy but it can be done. I never realized how strong my mom, or I was, for that matter, until we were put through that. It’s tough and you definitely deserve to break down every now and then. We’re all here for you and will be rooting him to recovery.
Love you lots! Sending prayers and super positive thoughts!
u got it hun!
I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. Prayers going out for you and your family.
Praying for you! If you haven’t already check out http://www.lilblueboo.com Ashley is fighting cancer right now and is such an inspiration.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this, Neely. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. xoxo thinking of you!
You know this already but: I’ve been praying for you/your family/your dad since you told me … and if you need ANYTHING at all, even just a vent-session please let me know girl! xoxoxo
Praying hard for you and your dad right now!!
Prayers for you, your dad and your entire family. xoxox
I love you and will be constantly thinking about you.
awww.. i am so sorry for your daddy, hun! xoxo.
Praying!!
I’m so sorry sweets! Prayers going up for your dad, you and your entire family! xoxo
My prayers go out to you and your family!! God will give you enough strength for you and for our family!
Thinking of you, I can only imagine how you are feeling. xox
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way 🙂
I’m sorry Neely. I will be thinking about you and your dad.
Praying for you and your family.
thinking of you and yours, xo
your private life is your private life, share as much or as little as you want. praying hard for your dad. I am an only child too and have had a very similar experience, it’s almost paralyzing. i’ll pray that your dad’s outcome is the same as my family’s was. thinking of you sweetie.
You know I’ve been saying lots of prayers and that I am here for you, no matter what! Love you!
Praying for you, your dad, and your family. Stay strong.
Prayers for your dad and for your family as you go through this.
So sorry, friend. I know something like this is the most difficult thing ever and I hope people respect your privacy unless you want to share. Thinking of you. xoxo
Stay strong. Being there for your dad i am sure he will appreciate it. No one can ever say the right words but just knowing there are many people praying for you & your family helps. My friend’s boyfriend was just diagnosed with cancer on valentine’s day and I can’t imagine going through what she is dealing with or you. Thinking of you!
Just know we are all praying for you and your family and that we all love you and are here for you! Thank you for telling us so we can pray specifically!
Thinking of you and your family…
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Without going into many details myself, I truly know where you are at with all this and know that it will be a tough ride but ultimately remember that those people who are here for you are the ones that mean the most. Hold them close to your side and be sure to depend on them as you need it.
Oh Neely. My prayers are coming your way. And let me tell ya, I’ve been praying way more than usual lately so they are all coming to surround you 🙂 I don’t want to say I’m sorry but I really am. Cancer sucks and I totally want to kick it’s butt. However, prayers are stronger so keep your head up beautiful girl! If you need anything, you know where to find me! xoxoxo
Aw, Neely. I am so sorry. I will definitely keep him and you in my prayers and offer up any kind of emotional support you need! That is definitely tough news to swallow and I hope that things are early enough along to catch the worst of it. Big hugs, girl.
aww so sorry to hear that Neely! *hugs*
Hoping everything gets better – always have hope!
I’m so sorry Neely. I hope he gets better with treatments. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
You have my prayers and more. My mom is battling Stage 4 breast cancer after being in remission for seven years. I am an only child too. So, let me know if I can do anything. I’ve been dealing with all this for 10 years now. 🙁 Much love to you.
I’m so sorry to hear this Neely. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers!
Oh Neely! I’m thinking about you and your family!!!
*hugs* I’ll be praying for you and your father.
I’m sending love, hugs and prayers. I was young when met dad was diagnosed with cancer, but I remember it vividly. He had kidney cancer and was able to beat it. I’ll be praying hard your dad has the same outcome! Much love sweet friend….
Absolutely scariest thing ever, HE will beat it! Praying for the journey and his strength.
Sending prayers and positive thoughts your way. So sorry you have to go through this! xoxo
Just wanted to tell you I am thinking about you and praying for your family.
Neely… I am praying for you and you’re family, sweets!! I know you are a strong girl with lots of people around to support you, but it is okay to break down and just let it all out.
Hope you have an amazing weekend to recharge…